am i the asshole? Yesterday i was out with my friend and future plans came up, i said i wanted to live in my fathers old house with a trusted friend or a boyfriend, my friend said they wanted to live there with me, but i immediately refused and they got mad at me. They are my friends but i don't see them as trustworthy, and after i explained that i get mad very easily (i have DOC) and i wouldn't stand them for such time, it's not referred to all of them but the friend in particular who asked would tire me in 2 days, no hard feelings