I (F23) was pissed at my mom (49) because she kept feeding her unemployed siblings (M44, M53, and F56) for months now. We're not rich. My parents were self-employed and we just have a small business. I was just about to graduate from college and I enrolled at a state university because my parents can't afford to support my studies. My older brother even had to drop out of college just to work. Now, I have a very irresponsible and drug addict cousin who got pregnant in her teenage years. She has five kids, all without fathers. She passed away this year due to OD, leaving her young kids. Now, my parents have decided to adopt one (M,10) which is totally fine with us. They support his studies and feed him too. What's annoying is that apart from the kid, my mom kept spoiling her siblings - and by spoiling I mean feeding her siblings, two of which are unemployed and drug addicts (M44 and M53). We sometimes have little food on our table but despite that, my mom still manages to feed her siblings twice or thrice a day. I was so mad at her and I kept expressing it to her. I tell her that she's just teaching her siblings to be dependent and weak instead of really helping them. One of her siblings even said that he's okay not working because my mom is providing for her. My mom just doesn't listen and justifies her actions as just being a responsible family member but she keeps on asking my brother for money.