Me F(21), is friends with Isabelle and her boyfriend (M&F20) in college. The end of our fall semester we all went out (and another friend Emily) to Applebees. Where I paid and Isabelle and Miguel didn’t give me back the right amount they only paid for their food no tax or tip. When I was waiting to tip they kept asking me how much, and I said can you wait until the bill comes back so I can sign it and add the right tip amount? And then I could divide the tax and tip by four. They didn’t wait and just sent me money for their food. And Miguel (who isn’t my friend), got the most expensive thing out of all of us. Emily was nice enough to send me more money that Miguel and Isabelle owed. They never paid me back. I messaged them a day or two later in our groupchat asking for the money back ($10) and was ignored and NEVER responded. I usually pay for things with Isabelle. But the reason why I asked is because Miguel is always frugal with money and Isabelle would flaunt her wealth. But after dating Miguel she pretended to be poor saying she couldn’t afford certain things. She is from one of the wealthiest neighborhoods in the US. Miguel broke up with Isabelle, and said it was because of the fact that Isabelle was too dependent on him. This is true because Isabelle only hung out with Miguel’s friends. By the end of the fall semester we just stopped talking. I didn’t even care that they didn’t pay me back and I kept saying hi. Miguel is studied abroad with Emily in France. And their bck together in the spring. Isabelle visits him in France. They’re telling a story to other mutual (who then told me) and Isabelle said that I begged for the money back and I’m fakest friend and her biggest opp on campus. She also lied and said that they both paid me back when it was Emily who sent me extra. She showed my Instagram to people so they could know how i looked, so I blocked both on social media because of their mean comments. And so they can never show my IG to anyone again. Is asking for tax and tip wrong? [[BACKSTORY]] to our friendship We were in a trio with (Jasmine) met in college. Isabelle has always been a bit immature and followed what anyone said. But I always thought she was sweet so I didn’t mind it. Fast forward to our second year our friendship I studied aboard an Isabelle and Jasmine stayed on campus. Jasmine would call me and say how rude Isabelle was to her - with her boyfriend (M20 Miguel). Anytime Isabelle and Miguel were together she would ignore Jasmine, and make it clear she didn’t want us speaking to him. This was strange and she did the same thing to me our first year. Miguel is Mexican descent but we were told we couldn’t ask him where he was from, or any thing related to his personal life - just basic questions anyone would ask their friend’s partner. So back to our second year where Jasmine would call me upset and say she wanted to end the friendship with Isabelle. Then our third year (our friendship ended here with Applebees situation) Jasmine went abroad. so it was me Miguel and Isabelle left on campus. I had my own friend group and she had his friends. She would always make weird jokes that she hates gay people although she identified as queer herself. Our friendship always felt like I was doing all the work and since Jasmine wasn’t around we rarely hang out unless I went to her apartment. She also had a “joke” with me that she was “so sexy, and I couldn’t get any guys who were actually interested in me.” they broke up and she flew home. By the end of the fall semester we stopped talking she never said hi.