Hello everyone! First post here! I (21f) have a friend (22f) from another country, and I’d say we kind of are close, however she generally is not doing well mentally most of the time. So in june, she asked for a little amount of money to get her through the month and I sent her 122$ (5000 tl in my country) and I said “it’s okay don’t return it” since my dad wanted to help her with that quantity. Second month, in july, she asked for money again, I sent the same amount (122$) with my dad’s permission (again no expected return). Important part is my dad and I decided to send those when he only asked for very little money such as 15$ and 25$, which can be an issue. Fast forward to august she got scammed from a link and lost 13000 tl (315$) and even though my boyfriend offered to help her with some of it, she refused his help and came to me to ask for the whole quantity which annoyed me a lot. Like, that’s too much, just take my bf’s offer and ask other friends and complete it? And I said I will give you 122$ again but you will return it when the bank returns your scammed money. She said okay. She also took my boyfriend’s offer and returned his money after 5 days by borrowing from another friend bc she knew he would need the money. Today she said she won’t be able to pay me as she couldn’t recover her money from the bank. I knew she will never probably pay it any time soon, and I told her to borrow from another friend and pay me back as she did for my bf. She said that I am well off and wouldn’t die because of hunger and friends don’t do this to each other, and that I never understand how being broke feels like. I feel so lost. And she mentioned she felt su*cidal bc of not having money. I said that I get it and that is literally why i gave her money with no payback. But that the quantity is becoming too much so i need my money back, however I would be well off without that money but I felt like an ATM. AITA for asking for my money back during her difficult situation? And ALSO, AITA for giving too much money without her asking bc if i had lent her 15$ and 25$ it would not accumulate to a problematic amount that I would regret and ask to get back afterwards.