I've been dating my boyfriend for 3 months. Twice now we've had arguments about me asking for a timeframe when he says things like "a few" or "ill talk to you later." One time, he got home from work and told me to "give him a few." I texted him about 45 minutes later, <edit> just asking him a question that didn't need to be answered that moment for when he came back</edit> and he got upset, saying I wasn’t respecting the space he had asked for. More recently, he was with his daughter. he had expressed to me earlier that he had seen me more than he had seen his daughter and he wanted to get some quality time with her. i had dropped him off at her moms house and text him when i got home since its an hour drive. He texts me three and half hours after letting me know they had just got to his home. two hours after that i sent him a thought i had that didn't require a response was just something on my mind. and he responds saying hes still with his daughter, he'll talk later. at this point it was already 9:30 pm, so I asked if she was staying over and if I should wait up or just go to bed. he said "it's up to me" and i tried to ask him for a timeframe so i'm not just waiting around for him. Later on he called, He said I was crossing a boundary and not respecting his time with her. I tried to explain to him it's not fair to me to just leave me in limbo while hes doing other things, I never tried to shorten his time with his daughter just asked for a timeframe because I dont want to go to sleep only to have him wake me up. he sees me asking as disrespectful. I just want to know if "a few" means minutes or hours, and if “later” means tonight or tomorrow so I’m not left hanging. AITA for asking for a timeframe?