We recently figured out smoke from a fire triggers my daughter (8) to have an asthma flair up. We were supposed to roast hot dogs around a fire tomorrow with my husband’s family and I remembered that smoke has been hard on her this summer. She has oral surgery in less than 3 weeks and isn’t supposed to use her inhaler before surgery. We already had to delay 12 weeks in the spring because she had croup. My husband is mad at me and said I can’t ask the world to change for us when we are the parents and should have handled the situation by not letting her near the fire. I said it’s not the world. Its family. It’s just his parents and grandparents and aunt and cousin and her kids. And they were all very understanding. But he said I will not change his mind. And how could I ask everyone to change all of their plans? I tried to point out, it’s just changing the method of cooking. Which we had talked about to begin with anyway because it’s still been hot. Maybe too hot for a fire.