My kids have had the same bus driver for 3 years and she has consistently gotten them to school just a few minutes before or even after the bell time. This has bothered me as my kids will get tardies if they aren’t in their classroom by the first bell, but when I’ve talked to the office they said they understand they’re bus riders and they wouldn’t be penalized. I’ve let it go. We’ve been in school 1.5 weeks and my oldest has been very bothered by it this year, her teacher assigns morning work and while it’s not due by the first bell, her classmates are finished and moving on with their day by the time she gets there and gets started. I called the driver yesterday to ask if there was any way for them to get to school earlier, I said I was willing to drive them to school if not. She got short and impatient with me on the phone and then this morning was cold to my kids as they got on the bus, not saying a word to me. I thanked her and texted her another thank you when my daughter let me know that they got to school 10 minutes before the bell and she ignored me both times. Am I the asshole for making this an issue?