So, I, (B, F, 30’s lesbian) became close friends with (L, F, 25, “straight”) when we met at work. For months we developed a strong bond and friendship, but she flirted with me a lot, especially when she discovered I was a lesbian. She would come close, hug, invite me out, back to hers, we’d drink, get high together. She would say things like “I wish I were bisexual”, “I wish I had known you when I were single”. She even scrolled on her phone once very close to me showing me photos and said “You might see my boobs, but I don’t think you’d mind.” She asked me questions too, like “What are you fetishes, kinks” “Do you own any sex toys” She has a boyfriend, and I never once tried anything with her, in fact, I was actually really nice to him, but she really flirted, and eventually I confessed feelings, to which she didn’t seem to mind, if anything, it made her flirt more. One day she told me she loved me and kept finding excuses to touch me, like rubbing my back, rubbing my arm, rubbing fluff off my shoulder, small stuff. Anyway, rumours at work circulated that we were more than friends, we never actually did anything except flirt and hug, etc, but she seemed to panic at the rumours. I decided I needed to know if this was all in my head or if I’m just reading too much into it so I asked if she had feelings for me too, I even made it extremely easy for her to say no if she didn’t. She ignored my text, blocked me and quit her job an hour before her shift to avoid seeing me again. Ghosted and ran. So AITA for asking her the question in the first place? I know asking it caused her to ghost me, quit and run a mile.