This requires a small amount of set up. I (20M) and my roommates (we can call them A, B, and C) of the same age just moved into our college apartment just over 2 weeks ago. In that time, we have done standard college stuff. Two of my roommates (A and B) have gotten high twice via edibles, and we had a single beer each. Additionally, A has a situationship where he tried dating a friend, although it didn’t work out. She had gotten minorly high (so little that I didn’t notice either time) a few times Recently I learned that roommate C has been complaining to his friends about our behavior, and has been angry with us for the past 2 weeks, despite never telling us When we planned to be roommates, C did tell us that he wasn’t totally comfortable being around high and drunk people. C himself has never had any bad experiences himself with drugs or alcohol, no abuse or past trauma, but is only uncomfortable because of stories from his friends. We decided to inform him any time that we were as an agreement, and C said that was fine and he would just go hang out with other people or chill in his room Now C has said his friends have told him to call the cops and he is extremely mad at us for this. A and B as well as I argue that we made an agreement, and we have stuck to it. Not to mention that we will (and have been) having less stuff as we get into our classes This is without mentioning that C is never around, and is making us feel uncomfortable, like we have to walk on eggshells even when he isn’t there. He also frequently takes our food and never contributes to making meals or going grocery shopping, without cleaning and dishes. Are we being unreasonable, or is his phobia causing him to have irrational expectations?