To preface: I apologize for any grammar/spelling mistakes as English isn't my first language. I (17F) have been friends with Eve (17F) since 2nd grade. Our friendship was beautiful for the most part. This recent situation has really been bothering me, however, and I wanted an outsider's opinion since I've been overthinking about it a lot. Just for a little background: I moved to the US shortly after my freshman year, and I've been living here for a little more than 2 years now. Now for the main situation: I began to notice that Eve would text me less and less. It didn't bother me in the beginning since I knew that we were both still in school and both very busy. After a while, I would be texting her and she would leave me on delivered for up to 2 weeks, which was definitely annoying but again, we live separate lives and I reminded myself of that. Around that time, she told me about a guy she was dating. I won't mention any detail of their relationship but that it was a bit messy. I knew this bc I would stay up late sometimes so she could rant about something he did that she didn't like to me. Those were one of the rare times she would be active & talk to me for about an hour or so, until I would tell her to rest since she'd be so tired from crying. Fast forward to where it was around the first week of school for me, and for Eve it was a vacation to another country. She had still been leaving me on delivered frequently, and even though it was starting to become frustrating, I set my feelings aside bc I knew she might be going through some things. Around 2 weeks into her trip she texts me, apologizing for not replying to me and that "she hasn't texted anyone at all since this trip". At that point I decided to tell her how I felt about it because 1. I knew she texted other people beforehand because she posted those conversations on her stories, which made me feel like I was deliberately being ignored. And 2. Our lack of conversations had been making me a bit sad since we used to tell each other everything. To be completely honest, I replied pettily to that message saying, "(you haven't texted anyone) except your boyfriend and your other friend", but after that I genuinely told her how I felt. I said that my feelings were starting to change about how she would leave me on delivered so often, especially knowing that texting was the only way we were able to keep in touch since I moved. She replied, "yeah so? you know i'm like that" which made me more upset because it seemed like she didn't care. I opened up about a lot of my concerns because I wanted her to understand how it was making me feel. She replied, "oh sorry, i didn't mean to. i just don't like texting people unless its my boyfriend or if my friends are ranting." After our talk I was still upset because it didn't feel like we settled anything & more like she gave me excuses, but I didn't say more bc I was just getting more annoyed. AITA for not being okay with the reasons she gave?