For context me 22F and my bf 22M have been together for almost 2 years, last years I got in nursing school which was a huge thing for me and now I’m starting my last year. I’m currently in the hardest semester of nursing school and work roughly 25 hours a week in addition to that to pay for rent and other bills. To be frank I don’t have much free time and I highly value my time. Today me and bf hung out and told him I didn’t wanna be out later than 9:30 pm cuz I have clinical tmr morning and my rest is important. He suggested last second to go to target and I agreed since I needed a few things, then he said he needed to make a quick stop at his house first and I thought it’d take too long so I said that I probably won’t go to target anymore cuz it was already 9:17, and now he’s upset at me saying I blew him off. Is this considered blowing off? He says I do this a lot but I really don’t think I do and I wonder if it’s because I can’t spend as much time with him because of nursing school or our time spent together is me having to do hw and study. I had a talk with him about how this semester was gonna be really busy for me before school started and I’m already struggling to balance school and work and I love him so much but I just feel he’s not seeing the weight of my situation. Or am I being the asshole?