I live in an apartment and my neighbors (who are also good friends) sometimes love to listen to music with heavy bass which I am very sensitive to. Normally I try to ignore or tolerate it but this week I was super sick (fever, headache, the works). Two nights ago I asked nicely if they could turn it down, especially because I was sick. They said yeah, they’d lower it a little but they had a friend over they hadn’t seen in ages so they weren’t gonna stop. Whatever, I let it slide even though it was still a bit annoying. Last evening, around 6PM, it started again and I honestly lost patience. I texted them something like "couldn't you just go out or cut the bass” and “I’m losing it with the boom boom boom.” They actually did cut it, but then told me I was being aggressive and reminded me they’re “in their own home.” Idk, from my side I feel like sleep/rest > pleasure of listening to music. But maybe I was too blunt? AITA? Edit : typo