I (F) and my partner (M) have been dating for over a year. Just a few weeks ago I and his family moved him into college; I haven’t seen him since. Flash forward, today when I got off my classes I facetimed my partner. Not even two seconds in I was playing with my dog (Oakley) My partner kept calling her ugly, and gross, and saying he hates her. (Mind you that this dog is my life, I love her so much she pulled me out of a dark place, she is my ESA) Typically I wouldn’t let this get to me, but I immediately responded with, “At least my dog is still alive” He immediately hung up. His dog died this past January. A beautiful Boston terrier. He has made jokes about his dog dying before so maybe that’s why I said what I said. Anyway, now he won’t talk to me and I am supposed to see him tomorrow. Am I The Asshole?