My friend has a habit of being late. And I’m not talking 15-20 minutes late. She’s at a minimum 45 minutes late. I wanted to meet her for a coffee before I was flying to London and she asked me to meet her at a salon at 2:30. While leaving my house (which is close to the salon) I checked with her if she got parking and she said it’ll be 3:00. Then at 3:00 she said it’ll be 4. I called her out for disrespecting my time and told her that I was flying the next day and had a million things to do and it wasn’t fair to keep me waiting without a heads up. She should have told me when she knew that she was going to be late and not waited for me to ask. She said “I’ve a schedule that keeps me on my toes” and I told her we all do- we all have jobs, lives, responsibilities and families and to do this is disrespectful. She told me I “come off too strong” and asked to stop talking for a while. At this point I lost my temper and said that she always avoided accountability and made it about “energy or coming off too strong” instead of owning up to the fact that she should have been more respectful of my time. This isn’t the first time, she’s done this multiple times and I’ve gently told her but she’s never registered. She’s stopped speaking to me and unfollowed me on Instagram AITA Edit- whenever we’d make a plan to meet somewhere she’d say “please be on time” and turn up late herself. Also she’s constantly talking about my “energy” or my “prana” and how I need to center myself or I come off too strong