Hi, my husband and I got married in June, and we're about to board the plane to our honeymoon. We've been with each other for almost a year and a half. Last night my in-laws were at our place to wish us goodbye before we went for our honeymoon (they live half an hour away). She was asking me to put some vitamin tablets as well, and offered to put in my suitcase. This is where it may have been my fault, first I said thanks I'll put it, she said its ok she can put it, and I said ok, you can put it in the inner zipper. Turns out she actually went through the clothes and she came across a fairly revealing bikini I had bought for this occasion. She asked me if I was really planning on taking this along, I kind of lost my cool because I was embarassed and said please don't go through our private stuff it's rude and ill-mannered. She then said a honeymoon doesn't have to mean that I wear revealing clothes on public beaches (we're Muslim and she's a bit more conservative I guess). I said our relationship and our honeymoon is our own and not for her to comment on. It might also be relevant to mention that my husband and I never told our families that we were in a physical relationship while we were seeing each other before our marriage, just that we were meeting up (my mom knows though, my dad doesn't or at least I don't think so, don't think either of his know). So, my point is my MIL has a misplaced idea of mine and my husband's relationship. She was very affronted by what I said, and said I'm the one who didn't have manners, that all she wanted to do was help. My husband talked to her in private and tried to explain that I felt violated even if she meant well. The mood had soured, and my in-laws wished us a good trip and left soon after. My husband said I shouldn't have let her near the suitcase at all if this was the case, and that while he had spoken to her about boundaries, I should'nt have reacted without thinking. We decided to not let this affect our honeymoon and we didn't talk about it again. But it was just on my mind right now. While he left to get us something to eat, I thought I'd quickly as if I was TA, and if so maybe I'll admit it, to get our honeymoon off to a clean start.