AITA for calling out my boyfriend's bait and switch? Posting from throwaway. My boyfriend (35m) and I (39f) have been dating for around a year and a half. We didn't live together and see each other mostly on weekends. He's been out of town for work for about a month and a half, so I haven't gotten to spend much time with him recently. Last Sunday he floated spending a night camping with his parents this Labor Day weekend. They're staying several nights, but he initially only brought up staying one. I'm not really into camping (he knows this), but I agreed because I wanted to spend time with him. He seemed really excited to do this with me, so I was excited in return (and I told him that). Important note, the campsite is only an hour away from where I live. Thursday rolls around, and he tells me that he thinks he's going to drive up on his own a day early and spend an extra night (he has the day off, I don't). But worry not, he tells me that he'll drive back Saturday to pick me up. This is all still fine by me, that sounds like a lot of driving, but sure. I ask him about rough timelines, get told something general about whenever we want. I do tell him that I don't want to drive up by myself, because I was looking forward to going up with him. Friday's here, and he calls me from the campsite and asks me when I want to me picked up. I ask him when he thinks he'll be able to, he says whenever I think I'll be ready by. So I say 12:30pm (I do a long run Saturday mornings and would go after I finished and showered, etc). He informs me he can't at that time, because he's going hiking in the morning with his family so it'll have to be later. At this point I start to get upset. When I ask him why he even bothered asking me what time I wanted, he got mad. He eventually ended up telling me that he's coming all the way to pick me up and all I'm doing is interfering with him camping with his family and doing things with them. He even suggested my meeting him somewhere, even though he knew I was bringing my own food and would need to pack it in his cooler. This was pitched to me as something he and I were doing together and it turned into a trip he was doing with his family that I guess I could join if I wanted to? And I'm really fucking hurt and angry. So reddit, was I the asshole for being unhappy with how this situation played it? Where do I even go from here? I feel like I'm just going to feel bad no matter what I pick. Tldr: boyfriend invites me to overnight camping trip with his parents, changes the trip without talking to me about it and gets upset when I call it out. Edit to add, when he first mentioned this trip (last Sunday) he explicitly said that if I didn't want to go, he'd go up during the week (Thursday or Friday) to spend a night, then come back and spend the weekend with me. His family is also local and he sees them very frequently. His parents owns the house he lives in (but don't live there) so they stops by multiple times a week.