I thank anyone who has the time to read this: So me 20F and 20F friend were to work a festival. We did this last year and were looking forward to doing it again. We've constantly been nagging the company for shifts. It's long hours and we work as a medic so spending time with eachother after our shifts means a lot to me. Anyways, it took ages for our shifts to come through. We asked for them March time and they came in August time (2 weeks before the festival). Turns out my friend is on nights and i'm on days. All 12 hr shifts. So it'd mean i'd never see her at all besides getting there and setting tents up. I started getting anxious and realising I can't do it without her and the main reason i go is for the memories, not necessarily the money. I told her i'm really sorry but i don't wanna go as it won't be the same. She then leaves me on opened for days (we talk every day). Another few days pass and she asks again if i'm doing it. I say no. Also turned out my car failed its MOT. Luckily the guy who does my car is a family friend, and said to me he'll pass it, only in trust that i'll get it sorted ASAP (there were literally no indicators showing on my car due to a black wrap). I went to get it sorted, and funnily enough, on the day my battery died and i had to get it changed. So i couldn't have gone anyways. I told my friend this (whilst still apologising). She said she can't do it without me as she needs the money and me to put the tent up. If she can do these 12hr shifts without seeing me surely she can put a tent up? She left me on opened for a week. I asked a friend of hers why and he said it was because she searched my REG up and saw it had passed.. without even saying anything to me. She ended up working the festival and posted loads of photos on instagram with her colleagues, looks like she had a great time! Yet she's still not talking to me even after the festival is done. Usually i'd be the one to say sorry. Every time in an argument she'd ghost me and i'd cry for her forgiveness. This time i'm not and she's still ignoring me. I understand she'd be upset for a day or two but a week?? It's her birthday tomorrow and i painted her a picture which took me about a week. I'm so sad she's not talking to me. It's so childish of her and i'm upset she's being like this. But i know i'm gonna end up "happy birthdaying" my way back in. What do you guys think of this? Sorry for this.