ALL NAMES ARE FAKE. There is a lot of nuances in this, so I will just write the basics. I (17F) study a Cert 3 in Film. Recently me and my two friends, Emma (18F) and Sky (18F), have been paired in a group with Geoff (40?M) for a project. (It is also important to note that I am the director for this project.) So far he has shown that he is misogynistic and disrespectful. Always trying to get his ideas in and never compromising with us. He has also made some misogynistic comments in class; I suspect that his behavior toward us has some sexist undertones to it. We recently got in a disagreement because he wouldn't stop pushing his idea onto us, he wanted to get some footage of people at the bus stop, not actors, but regular people. We said that we can't film people without permission, he joked and said, "We'll get permission after." We told him it probably wouldn't work and that filming people without permission is not okay. He kept repeating himself and eventually I had to get up and leave because I was starting to get passive aggressive and frustrated and it was clear he wasn't getting the point. At lunch I apologized to him for getting angry, though I was not sorry for what I said. It wasn't very leader like, and I admitted this. He asked if I wanted to play pool with him and some of the other guys, I politely declined and I thought everything was fine. We were getting along in class; he was asking questions if he didn't understand something and the vibe was good. That was Monday. Fast forward to today, Wednesday, I was supposed to go into campus but I decided not to. I needed to finish the shot list, so I bring up the shared document we all have for the script. Side note: in our idea there is a voice over of which I named 'G.O.D', I made it clear that it's not God, the name is never spoken in the film. Apparently I was not clear enough, because at the bottom of the word doc was a note saying "We're going to use 'Internal voice/gut feeling' instead of god, because of the guidelines." And all the places that said 'G.O.D' were deleted. This is not the problem. I don't mind changing the name. Geoff is from a different culture so i assume it may have made him uncomfortable. If he had emailed me I would have been more than happy to change it. I don't want anyone feeling uncomfortable. but he didn't. He also lied about the guidelines. I looked it up on the website for the place we study and there are no religious rules. It is also the assumption that I will just put in the name and change it for him. I find it extremely disrespectful, he thinks he can do whatever and take over and I will just let him. I went to Emma and Sky, and they said that yes it was rude but it's not worth making a thing about, but I strongly disagree. I worry that all these little shows of disrespect will build up to something bigger. I am going to send an email to our teacher, asking for advice, since I still have to work with him. Do you have any advice Reddit? AITA?