I am due to be a bridesmaid at my friends wedding next weekend in London (I’m from the UK) and was very much looking forward to it. We have been friends for over 20 years and never had any problems before. Another girl from our friendship group (also a bridesmaid) mentioned a few weeks back that the bride was trying to find a way to keep me out of the photos as she was worried I would overshadow her (the bride is gorgeous btw and this is 100% impossible). I didn’t think much of it as I didn’t think it would be true. Anyway, last night I had a text from the bride asking if I would mind staying out of the photos as my tattoos may ruin them. For context, I have a full sleeve that would be visible in the dress but all of the bridesmaids and the bride will also all have visible tattoos (mine are larger though). I’ve agreed because ultimately it’s her day, she’s paid for it and I don’t want to create any drama on her special day but it’s made me feel quite upset. WIBTAH if i made an excuse to not go?