Throwaway I'm (28F) am getting married in the spring. I've asked one of my best friends to be one of my bridesmaids. She has a service dog for PTSD. I respect her dog and glad she has it in her life. My Fiance and I don't particularly care for dogs, and we've decided we don't want her service dog in our photos or in the ceremony. When I asked her she got excited and immediately said her dog could wear something to match the rest of the bridesmaids. Thats when I explained that the dog could come to the wedding, but wouldn't be an active participant in the day. We don't want it in photos or in the ceremony. It could go to photos, but not be in them. It'll be off to the side for the 10-15 minute ceremony. In preliminary discussions with our photographer we've brought this up. She did not take it well. Called me an asshole and ableist and it was not a constructive conversation after the ask. She hasn't accepted my offer to be a bridesmaid, but also hasn't declined formally. AITA?