I get a lot of great hotel deals through work. I am planning a trip to Key West with my boyfriend for us to get away after a stressful month of us getting me moved into his place. Key West is one of my favorite places, I’ve been a ton, and my boyfriend has never been. We both can’t wait for the trip. I had been booking random dates for the hotel, whatever I found, and then later we decided the length of our trip based on 1) airfare and 2) available time off. We are going for 6 days. I have a lot of paid time off. My boyfriend does not. So he will be taking some paid time off and some time off not paid. Which he is ok with. He did not want to do longer due to work and also his father isn’t in the best health (just an unfortunate slow decline with random flare ups). I had discussed with my boyfriend extending the trip and my mom coming down. I still had some of the hotel deals booked for after the planned trip. Well, my mom could not go unfortunately. Instead I asked my long time friend, who is going through a break up and tough time, if she would like to come down and meet me for a few days. I haven’t seen her in a year or two. We love key west and have had some great memories there in the past. My boyfriend is not happy. He feels like this was supposed to be “our” trip, and now it isn’t. He and I will be arriving together, spending 6 days there, and I would even drive back up to Miami for him to fly out. Then I would pick up my friend from another airport. So besides the flight home, it is our vacation the entire time. I don’t want to upset him, but I also don’t think that my plans are unreasonable or rude. It’s common for me to take trips, travel, visit people. AITA?