I was at my friends house. We were chatting, when the subject of our partners come up. We started talking about funny stories, sweet stories and then, the last things we did with our partners. I explained how i was with my boyfriend last night at his house, with his brother, dad and mom. I explained all the fun we had and i casually mentioned that his mom kissed him on the mouth. My friend lifted an eyebrow and said: "Wow,,, that's pretty weird". I asked him what he meant. He said it's weird for my boyfriends mom to kiss my boyfriend, and joked about how hes a mamas boy. I told him he is nothing near that, and that my boyfriend just has a good relationship to his mom. But he kept going at it. He joked about how my boyfriend is a manchild and that i should probably rethink about staying with him because he won't contribute to the house later in life, all said with giggles. I wasn't laughing though, not even smiling. I got visually upset and he asked what was wrong. I started loudly telling him to not disrespect my boyfriend because, firstly, my boyfriend is no where near all the shit he said, secondly, because he knows what other shitty partners ive been with and i dont find it funny to joke about. He got quiet and i left. The next day, he texted saying he was just looking after me when he knows what i've been through, and that i was a-hole for reacting like i did and i should be thankful because he was looking out for me. But he knows my boyfriend, he knows my boyfriend isn't anything like he said. I honestly dont understand why he would joke about something like that when he knows it's a sensitive subject to me. I know he's not very good at talking seriously, so maybe he really was just trying to look after me? Now i know people are gonna wonder, so i'm putting this straight. Me and my boyfriend are doing wonderfully, and i couldn't love him more. No, he's not a manchild. He does plenty of work at home (maybe too much) and he will always help if you ask him to. No, me and his mom does not have a bad relationship. She's such a sweetheart to me, and even calls me her daughter in law, when me and my boyfriend are just partners.