I 28 F, have been living with my Mum 46 F for almost my entire life give it take a year or two. Do I want to live with her? Absolutely not. Have I done it because it helps her out with money etc? Absolutely. It's been a long road our history but as of right now, I have a partner 26 M. I have a daughter, 6 with a previous partner and a son, 19 months and a baby on the way due in Feb. My mum has a daughter, 11 and a partner (daughters dad not mine), in his mid 30s I think. We all live together. My mum doesn't pay rent and neither does her partner. They pay utilities and we all pay our own food seperate. We pay just over $2k a month for rent. She has told me that utilities cost the same or more then what we pay which I know is a flat out lie since I've seen and tallied all the bills she's received the entire time we have been here and she's paid a massive amount less then we have. Me and my partner work for the same umbrella company so he got her partner a job and I got her a job. Two different jobs but same company overall. They did not have a steady income prior to our help but now they do, they are earning good money. Our time at this house has been rough to the point where we have had multiple verbal fights and every fight leads to going out seperate ways and moving out. We both want that. Well. Our lease is up on the 25th of next month. Our real estate has sent us countless emails asking if we are resigning. No one has replied since we have only just started talking again after yet another fight. I have spoken to our agent seperately and let him know I don't plan to stay but we haven't given offial notice. Since my mum is very narcissistic, I've been giving small hints about looking at houses etc. I said to her that I have to give notice soon because if I don't we have to keep paying rent. She asked when etc. I told her she didn't have to move and that she could stay but we would go and she said absolutely not. So I took that as she knew now that she would be leaving once the lease is up. So today. I have my official notice to my agent that we won't be staying after the 26th. Mind you, I don't have a house lined up and I know they don't but because the agency is another company under our umbrella company we are pretty much guaranteed any house we want as long as we can pay the amount upfront. My mum messaged me tonight. "I can't believe you gave notice already" I'm so annoyed. You're a grown adult. You got all the emails. You've been involved in all the fights. It has been very clear we won't be staying together. We are talking about houses in the area. I literally said days ago that I have to give notice and you need to hurry and sort yourself out money wise so you can a specifc house that's on the market before someone else takes it. AITA for not telling her tonight before I pressed send? Taking into account every day I don't is another day of rent I have to pay?