I (14M) and my brother (around 21M) have been normal siblings for most of our lives. We argue every once in a while. But not really heated arguments And they just breeze over after a while. But there is something about me that he hates (and other people probably would too if they lived with me) it’s that i never talk about myself. Like if he asks where i am going when i go out I don’t tell him. If he asks what game i am downloading I don’t tell him. If he asks what i am cooking I don’t tell him,etc…. But my mindset is that if it won’t make any difference to you then it isn’t important to know. And i do share stuff if it actually makes a difference to him. But if it won’t then I don’t. And i barley know anything about him either. And i never ask too.He probably won’t mind sharing but i just feel annoying if i ask him stuff like who are your friends (he knows basically all of my friends) or comment on something he says while in a call (sometimes i hear some weird stuff. But i never comment on it nor judge) Sometimes he gets mad when I don’t share stuff but as i said it breezes over after a while. But around a week ago. He asked why I increased the internet (context:where i live internet is limited per month and you can increase it by paying money which is annoying but that’s another topic) I told him it is so i download something . Then he asked what will I download I remember that i told him a game. Then he asked what and i told him I don’t know yet (at the time i had some ideas but I wasn’t completely sure). And that’s when the conversation should’ve ended right? Nope. He asked again and if i had any idea at-least I didn’t really respond. But after he asked again i told him the name of a game that isn’t really big in size and i thought about downloading. THEN HE ASKED WHAT ELSE. And i just told him no. Then he said that it IS going to make a difference to him because he might play it or something. My mindset at that point was just that I don’t tell him the game that i kinda thought about (a 100gb game) because i know it is a game he doesn’t care about as he told me that before. And it’s a big game so he will judge me or tell me not to download or something So i thought it wasn’t necessary (Rest of the post AND TLDR in comments because of character limit)