Hi. First time posting here. I (F35) merried this year to my husband (M36) and partner for 7 years. Yesterday he texted me asking if would be alright if they celebrate his friend bachelor party in our house. I said yes, obviously, cero complications about it. They want a all male party with games and drink without any woman services (iykwim) but, even so, they could do what they want, I wouldn't mind. So I was thinking what to do, like sleeping in my parents house for the weekend but I don't want to let my cat alone. He is terrified of people and loud noises. He's never been in other houses. My safest option was to be in our bedroom (believe me, they wouldn't even know my presence. It's in the second floor away from the living room and backyard), closing the door. We have and extra bedroom and a big sofa for anyone wanting to sleep in the night. So, when we finally see us at night, we barely talk about it and then, all of a sudden, he said to my that a have to leave the house that weekend. Not proposing the topic, asking me if it would be ok, what would we do or anything. Just bluntly said that. I was shocked and said no, I don't want for my cat to be alone and scare without me. He kind of repeat himself "jokinling" expecting me to just gave in. I did but I felt annoyed. I want for them to have a good time, that's not the probem. My problem was how he just assumed I wouldn't be in my own home or at least talk about alternatives that would suit me and my cat. He then was all like "but don't be angry with me". I said that I needed time. I was disappointed, to be real. He didn't gave me enough time and escalate the topic saying that I have no reason to be upset about the bachelor party and other stuff... And that was not the problem!!!! So clearly he didn't listen to me or understand my position. We argue about it and ended in nothing, both mad at each other. I went to sleep feeling sad and misunderstood. We have beend having communication issues in the last couple of months. We have good times and bad times. He is a good man and I expected more empathy and communication, that's all. So... I am in the wrong? What could I be done better? Thanks in advance.