My (27m) sister (19f) is getting married in about a month. She and her fiancé (20m) are getting details figured out for the wedding, and one of the things they decided is that the dinner after the wedding ceremony will be child-free. I don’t have an issue with this policy at all, but there is a bit of a wrinkle. My sister texted me that even though the invites she sent out say that the dinner will be child-free, she is making an exception for my daughter (2). The reasoning she gave is that me, my wife (25f), and my daughter are coming in from out of town, and because our daughter is unusually well-behaved for kids her age. Which is true, she is a very mild-mannered child who isn’t usually throwing tantrums nor is she always bouncing off the walls. And in the cases where that does happen, my wife and I do our best to remove her from the situation so that she isn’t disturbing others. I really appreciate this gesture and it does make some logistics with childcare easier, but I also worry that it’s going to upset some of the other family and guests who have had to leave their young children with a babysitter. It’s my sister’s special day and I don’t want to make it look like she’s picking favorites, especially to her new in-laws that have a lot of young children. So Reddit, even though my sister is making an exception, WIBTA if I took her up on that?