Hi everyone this is my first time posting, and I really really need advice. Im a 28 year old woman and my auntie is 47, she has bullied me and my family my entire life - from screaming matches, emotional abuse to extreme alcoholism. She has berated us for as long as I can remember and I am so sick of it. Every family get together i.e christmas, easter, a birthday - always ends with her totally drunk the entire time screaming and calling us names. I am in therapy due to the trauma that is linked to being treated like this my whole life. As an adult i try to avoid her by any means necessary but I love christmas and i love the rest of my family, but unfortunately i am in a family of 'brush it under the carpet's and something needs to change. She has a 15 year old daughter who has been out of education for a long time due to my auntie and she has been engaging in very very very inappropriate and illegal things for her age. I want my cousin, the 15 year old, to be rescued from this woman but I am also aware that it is her mum. so could cause a massive divide between her and me - would i be the arsehole for calling social services on her? And hopefully getting her the help she clearly needs.