Context, I F(20) live with my parents and I am in my 3rd year of college. I work two jobs and that is around 45 hours a week plus being a full time student. My summer just ended and my parents are upset because in previous semesters I have failed 3 classes. I plan to make them up, I’ve apologized many times and I understand their frustration with me. My frustration now is that in my first week back, only one of my classes has a grade in it because it was a syllabus quiz and I didn’t know I could retake said quiz, so I got an 85%. This caused them to freak out and tell me if by next week all of my classes werent A’s, they would stop paying for my college and my health insurance. Also I am paying for my car registration, car insurance, my food, my gas and $50 a month in rent to them. That totals to about $1,100 a month in cost for me. And any extra money I do have, goes to them to pay back for helping me with my car loan. They’re upset because I’m struggling to pay all my bills and that I’m spending money going out with friends. Recently I went on a small vacation with friends and confided in my step dad that I drank with said friends. This was said in confidence. But during the discussion about my classes/grade he brought up me drinking to my mom and she flipped out on me. I understand I shouldn’t have been drinking at 20, but I was on a vacation with friends and I just wanted to have some fun with them. (I have never done this before, and I never go to parties or sneak out or do anything illegal) My mom is incredibly upset with me for drinking, and my stepdad is upset with me for spending money on things other than bills. Am I delusional to be mad? Every time I express anger or frustration towards my situation they tell me how they were doing so much more than me at my age and that I should be grateful they are paying for my school, and letting me live with them. I am grateful for both of those things but I am also upset about other things. I also struggle with severe depression and I have hypersomnia which really affects how I work and study, but they keep telling me to get over it. I am so close to quitting college, selling my car and moving out. I can’t handle the way they treat me. Am I overreacting? I think they expect too much from me, is that true or am I just being lazy?