I have had periods of overthinking in my life for sure. But this is new for me. I am now married and we have been married for a while now and we have been together a few years. I am the epitome of loyal. Recently I saw this guy at the store that I have went to school with, hadn’t seen him in years. I have never been romantically involved with this person nor have either of us pursued each other. I randomly remembered I sent him a message one time responding to one of his social media posts/stories. I can’t totally remember what it was about, but it was a one time conversation like something related to fitness and eating right. I was thinking this happened before I started dating my husband but now I really can’t remember. I am stressed out because what if I sent this while dating my now husband and didn’t bring it up. At its core, it makes me feel really bad for some reason like I hid it? Like I said, I have been nothing but loyal to my husband and have never questioned my loyalty to him at all. If anything, I had trust issues about my husband cheating when we were dating. I do recall how I actually saw this person a year or two ago and I thought of it at that time too. But during the moment I had a vague memory of it maybe occurring after we started dating and I think I just thought to myself well if I did that I am just never going to bring it up to my husband. So even then I wasn’t sure if it was accurate but I thought oh I might have. But now since I can’t remember the timing, it makes me feel like if I even sent a message that I am a cheater. It’s really strange. I actually talked to my husband about it and he said not to worry about it, but I still feel like I should remember this. He even said he doesn’t care to reach out to the guy to ask if it will make me feel better. Idk what to do. I have never felt guilty about anything nor have I ever thought of this before now. Edit: I also just want to mention one reason why this is causing me to feel bad, because it is really out of my character to message other guys. I mean I have for work and school, and yeah I have liked other guys post so i just find it odd if I did that and didn’t mention it.