I 23F was supposed to go on a trip to Mexico in 10 days with both my parents and boyfriend for a family friends wedding. My mom 58F went to the hospital today for a headache and the CT ended up showing a 75% blood clot in her neck (carotid artery). She hasn’t had a stroke and her brain is fine but she will need to be treated for the blood clot. Long story short she can’t go on the trip to Mexico because of the risk of being on the airplane with this issue therefore my parents won’t be coming. My bf and I took off work for this trip and it also lands on our 3 year anniversary so we wanted to still go. AITA if I leave my mom to still go?? She thinks it’s selfish of me.