Hello all. I have a weird situation that I'm gonna give some background to. My roommate is also my friend of 10ish years. We moved in together around 2022. I have been on my own for 2 years and i was her first roommate. We went through some many troubles together. She paid about 1.5k of my funds during one year, and then the following year i covered her for about 3k. She paid the difference already. About two years ago, my husband was added to the mix. The three of us split everything 3 ways, with my roommate paying extra bills only when she was paying us back the money. Recently, i lost my job. My roommate and husband have picked up the slack 50/50 and I've picked up more chores around the apartment. At the same time, my roommates car crapped out. Although reluctant, my husband agreed to let her drive his truck until she got a new car since my car is too small for her and it hurts her back. This was three months ago. She's been looking for a new car even longer though. Repeatedly my husband has asked for progress, but she's said that she doesn't know how to get a new car and is struggling. We have offered her help, giving her resources and i even gave her my moms number since she cannot contact hers about this. So there's been no progress on getting a new car. Things have come to a head where she has now hit my car with my husbands truck in the parking lot. She's scratched both vehicles. She's apologized to me, but hasn't said a word about it to my husband who is currently also recovering from a minor surgery. My husband feels disrespected, and i don't blame him. But i feel weird since I've been reliant on my roommate for income reasons right now. The plan was tomorrow, its her weekend, i talk to her privately about how my spouse feels and that he no longer feels comfortable with her driving his car. She can drive mine until i get a new job (i should be starting in about 3 weeks). After that, she needs to find a new car. My car however really hurts her back because its stuck with the seat on the highest setting. So i feel like im being a dick. So WIBTA if i told her she couldn't drive my husbands car anymore?