Context: My (24F) best friend (24F) and I recently stopped being friends, which happened completely out of the blue for me. I was upset for at least a month and went to therapy. Long story short, I was supposed to move out of one dorm into a better one and she agreed to help me move at 11. She texted me past 11am that day, saying she wanted to wait because it was “misty”. Keep in mind I had taken all my stuff out to the sidewalk, so I had to take it all back to my dorm. Then at 12, which we rescheduled for, she again said to wait because she had gone to the art studio (we were both in college at this time and she’s an art student). I agreed and we then decided 1:30pm. At this point, I was hungry and went to the dining hall for food. At 1:27, as I’m walking out to take my stuff back out, which will take less than 5 minutes, she texts me saying she’s here and she becomes upset that I’m not waiting for her. I explain I was hungry and I’m literally rolling my suitcases her way. I can see her car. She tells me that she can’t deal with this and drives away, and I end up having to uber with all my stuff to my new place. She had asked me to safeguard a book with a polaroid of her ex-boyfriend, which I moved with me, and then took back once I graduated and went back home. A few weeks before graduation, she still has not texted me back or accepted any of my calls, and so I texted her asking her if she wants her things back. She never responds. This was in May. Fast forward to a few weeks ago, I again text to see if she wants her stuff. She never responds. I want to throw away her stuff, because I don’t want it anymore, but some of my friends say I’d be an asshole. My parents and other best friend say I should and that I was too nice for even keeping it this long, especially after the way she’s treated me. (She started out nice but by the end she became a toxic friend, to say the least.) So am I the asshole if I do throw away her stuff? I do feel somewhat bad because I know how important it is to her but I’m tired of constantly seeing it and being reminded of her.