I would like to keep my age anonymous but my age range is 13-15 I’m quite stressed to tell about this but here it goes my parents 55m and 43f have been having horrible marriage issues throughout the last 4 years it just started with fights over small things then escalated to breaking each others privacy and boundaries without permission it started about a year ago when things got really worse for context I don’t know much but apparently my mother was seeing someone else and they had a very serious fight about it especially since they have a child (me) and I’m also an only child and it makes it more stressful and the fights escalated until they decided to get a divorce but since in the country I live in only men can file for divorce the boundaries are very strict and difficult they have yet to get split and I hate it I’ve been isolating myself in my phone slowly planning how to move on although it seems impossible not to mention we have heavy money problems they always try to win me over for custody in the future I would prefer to live with my dad rather than my mom but I still don’t know I’ve been distant and my mom has been very pressuring while my dad is the opposite he respects me and really loves me but my mom just seems annoyed but at the same time it’s like she loves me but hates me and it’s really hard for me to keep a good relationship with her and I’m wondering if I’m overreacting and being an a hole for isolating myself