My best friend and I have been close since high school, and now we’re in college together. We share a lot of personal stuff, and I’ve always assumed it stayed between us. I told her my salary once before. Later, during a FaceTime call when her roommate was with her, she brought it up again to confirm the number so she could tell her roommate about my job benefits. I didn’t want to share in front of someone else, so I said I’d rather keep it private. I also asked her to let me know when others are around during calls so I know what I’m comfortable talking about. I feel like money is personal and not everyone needs to know what I earn. My best friend said it wasn’t a big deal but later told me it was “weird” I didn’t answer. Her roommate also probably thought I was being an asshole. I don’t think it’s weird to keep finances private, but now they’re both acting like I’m the odd one.