So a while back I (f24) helped my boyfriend (m26) get a car using my credit only. At the time I was skeptical but was under the impression he’d pay it off fast. We’ve been together over 9 years (not married) so sometimes thinking these things through for myself isn’t always a thing unfortunately. As of lately I’ve noticed he takes the car and disappears a lot, comes home with good amount of money but acts broke with me, then when I need the car for very specific days (he has no real schedule ) he basically tells me no. Now today was a little different because it’s our son’s first day of school. My boyfriend was napping and I woke him asking if I should get our son or if he was going to, he told me to go ahead so instead of walking I took the car and our other son (both children under 6). I picked up our son and took a trip to the grocery store where I left my phone in the car for literally 40 minutes because I was overwhelmed with my kids and dropped it on the car floor. By the time I get back to the car he’s been blowing my phone up, freaking out on me and having called both my parents. Mind you all of them have my location which would’ve showed my phone was in the supermarket parking lot. I get back to the house and he takes my key to the car. Also worth mentioning, he convinced me to sell my old car a couple months back, and he’s now two months behind on his payments for this car. AITA for seriously considering surrendering our only vehicle?