So I (26f) have a friend (29f) and we’ve known each other for about 6 years. We met through an old job and have known each other since. Maybe a year ish ago, she went through a breakup. Her longterm boyfriend had decided to end things. She reached out to me and I went to her immediately. About 6 ish months ago she came with me to my family home for a holiday visit. Her and a relative (24m) hit it off, however that relative was in a complicated situation. I informed her of this but told her no harm in talking to them and being friendly. One thing leads to another, they end up forming the beginning of a relationship. No biggie, I’m there for her for whatever. We’re practically besties at this point. A some time goes by, and she finds out that she’s expecting. She’s so excited, she always wanted a family. Again, I’m there for her as best as I can be. There are a few hiccups along the way, a lot of back and forth with her and our sorta mutual friend (she introduced me to her friend but I don’t know her very well, they had been friends for years prior). She ends up moving into my family home with all of my family. Fast forward to now, she’s suddenly having a bunch of issues with my relative. Feeling disrespected, feeling neglected or feeling unaccommodated in the relationship. However, relationships are two way streets and they are my family. I know they can be difficult at times but I know that they are also often misunderstood which triggers the negativity. So as her friend, and not wanting to be in the middle of everything, I tried my best to tell her that it isn’t right for them to treat her in that manner, but to try to have empathy for their side as well considering how fast they had moved and they have feelings too that maybe are hard to express to them. And to keep in mind that it’s also a big change for my relative so fast as well and to not sweat the tiny details, focus on the big picture. And that pregnancy hormones can be a lot sometimes, so don’t stress too much on things that might not have bothered you so deeply in the past. Bad idea. She turns on me, says I’m patronizing her. Invalidating her feelings and so on. I tried to explain that I wasn’t trying to start a fight, that I was trying to be helpful. I was also at work. So couldn’t really go back and forth. I tried to put out the fire, didn’t work. So I said I’m going back to work, bye. Later that day my cat died very suddenly and it was tragic. I took some time and only really reached out to my family. A week goes by, and I get a message from her. A very long one, again while I’m at work, about how I’ve been acting funny since she got pregnant and that she won’t tolerate the disrespect and my bad mouthing. I tell her that I took some time to breathe, and that if she had a problem with me consulting my family for advice on the situation then maybe we needed a break. We haven’t talked since then. *I can give more context if needed*