So I’m going to try and be as fair and unbiased as much as I can. My girlfriend’s dog pooped all over the living room. This is not common, he was only left alone for a couple of hours and usually he can hold his business. I work from home and I made this discovery during my 30 min lunch break. I called her to let her know what happened, she said she was on her way home and called me “immature” for not cleaning it up. I was very clear from the get go that I didn’t want her dogs to move in with us. We are raising a toddler together and our place is kind of small and these are large dogs (one is 60lbs the other is 80) Her dogs ended up moving in with us anyways after he dad kicked them out. I made sure that she knew that they are her responsibility, they are her dogs and not mine. Anyways, we have been in a really bad place for the last few days because of this. Any insight or advice is greatly appreciated. TLDR: my girlfriend is upset with me because I did not clean up after her dogs. We are breaking up because I am refusing to apologize. Update: I have apologized to my girlfriend. I felt like my boundaries were not being respected but I think I have some mental health issues that make me unintentionally selfish sometimes. I’m 99 percent of the time not like that, or at least thats my opinion. I don’t have a lot of conflict in my life