My partner (25) and me (23) had a fight today. For context, we were watching a livestream for a game update together. The devs for the game announced that some limited-time rewards would no longer be limited but instead be available around the year. I just jokingly said ”womp womp” at this, cause I dont really mind limited time rewards as I think they make sense in some cases. They then got mad at me and told me that I was disgusting, petty and childish for saying this and ”being petty for others getting stuff in the game too”. I clarified that no, I am in no way petty, I just personally dont get it and meant it as a joke. Good for the people that do care however. They then kept saying that why would I even be a dickhead and state that out loud, and that my behaviour disgusts them. Even told me to ”stop trying to justify your gross and dickhead behavior and own up to it” The part that really pissed me off here is the fact how often they do this. Almost every time we have a fight about something I did, they give me no benefit of the doubt and do not allow me to try and explain myself at all in the case of a misunderstanding cause I am immediately just ”justifying gross behaviour”. It seems that they just have painted me as a horrible, gross and disgusting human being in their head and refuse to listen when I try to explain myself otherwise. I always try to apologize too if something I said or did made them actually feel bad, but in some cases I just dont get it. Every time they ask ”why do you do this” but tell me I am just trying to manipulate and justify disgusting behaviour when I try to explain my thought process and what I really meant to them. I am also autistic, so there is a chance I am doing something wrong here but am just unaware of it. I’d appreciate any insight/advice. AITA?