We have been married for 10 years, every time I want us to meet our friends, or when I want to be alone, she gets a headache. Now she came again, complaining of a headache, and we're about to meet my old friend I just got ready and went and told her: You can call me if you feel bad or call an ambulance. I feel good now and I think it's sort of justice from my side. Or ITA?