I just got married (24F) last month and I moved out of my family’s house a few months ago. Since I was 16, I was used to being the DD for them for friend gatherings when they wanted to drink. But my least favorite thing about that was getting home really late. They weren’t doing anything crazy, just talking with family friends. Finally being married, I was excited to get to leave functions when I wanted to and not be tied to them. Before, I sometimes had to work the day after and would get no sleep. This past weekend, my parents asked (key word) if we could drive them to/from a dinner at a friend’s house. I said no because we’re not planning on staying late, probably until about 10 bc we wanted to get up early the next day to go to the gym as we always do. They said alright and actually left around the time we did. Everything seemed fine until my mom texted me today to let me know they’re angry with me for not driving them. I said “we thought yall were going to stay late?” She said that that doesn’t matter and that I’ll understand when I have children. I’ve been their DD since I was 16 and with them supporting me throughout the years, that’s the least I could do. Now I’m married and have no responsibility to drive them. I’m wondering why they even ASKED for me to drive them if it was already an expectation that I would drive them. Maybe I’m in the wrong and should’ve driven them to be nice. I’m not sure if I’m missing something. Thoughts?