A few days ago, it was my birthday. I planned a small lunch with my two friends. We’ve been friends for four years, and we’re just really close (we joke about how we're luckily not a “duo in a trio” situation). They have a habit of always being late, so I begged them to be on time just this once. I specifically asked them to come by 3:00 because the restaurant I picked is a fancy place that closes at 4. That day, I was near the place getting my nails done. When I finished, they texted me saying they had “left,” so I rushed to get to the restaurant. But when I called after reaching, I found out they actually hadn’t even left their houses yet. I was annoyed, but I waited. I was waiting outside but by 3:30 I entered the restaurant and the waiter told me the kitchen was about to close in 5 minutes, so my only option was to order quickly without them. When my friend finally arrived, I just broke down crying. I know I’m sensitive, but I was hurt and frustrated, so I decided to just go home. I wasn’t hungry anymore, and maybe a more mature person would’ve just gone somewhere else, but I couldn’t. Both friends came home with me. They gave a short apology and suggested other places, but I wasn’t in the mood to eat. Yes, I should’ve spoken to them properly when they apologized, but after 5 minutes of barely trying, they went into my room “to give me space.” That upset me more, because I felt abandoned. Later that evening, I had more friends coming over, so I distracted myself by decorating. They were there but didn’t really talk to me. The next day, I explained why I was hurt and said I wished they had made more of an effort to make it up to me. Instead of resolving things, they sent me long passive-aggressive paragraphs about how I'm too sensitive and I go quiet when upset, that it's immature and makes it seem like I think the world revolves around me. They even called me rude for ignoring them as house guests, but to me, they’re like family and which guest would go into my room unannounced? They also said I dragged it out for too long, that I was being irrational, and I could’ve just gone to another place with them. I never expected them to “suck up” to me (their words). I just wanted some comfort and for them to sit with me, not leave me alone. Who goes into a different room when their friend is crying, even if they're quiet and not responding? Now I feel like they’ve secretly resented me for a while and used this situation to unload everything, since they brought up a LOT of other issues they have with my personality. It hurts me because I always speak about them to others with love and respect and the idea that they've been criticising me for a while behind my back really hurts me. If they had issues they could've just told me before why use this disagreement to dump it all on me. So now I don’t know what to do. Am I immature and sensitive for being so hurt? Should I continue being their friend or is it better to walk away? AITA?