My friend (31 F) and I (30 F) made plans months ago for her to visit me and my parents, who live about 1.5 hours by train plus a 40-minute car ride (or a 1.5–2 hour drive) outside the city we live in. The day before she came to visit (Thursday), I asked if she needed me to pick her up from the train station on Friday morning. I made plans to spend the night at my parent's place on Thursday, which she knew. She said she had already coordinated with my mom to pick her up, but was also “open” to me doing it. I told her that either way, she would have a ride--if not me, then my mom. That same night, my car broke down. So I ended up driving out to see my parents Friday morning instead of Thursday night, and my mom was set to pick her up as planned. But when I arrived later, she was already there and upset with me for not offering her a ride from the city that day. I don’t really understand why? She had already arranged with my mom. (Which I thought was weird.) On top of that, things have felt off between us lately, and honestly, I didn’t want to force myself to offer a ride when I felt like no matter what I did, she wouldn’t be happy. When I tried to explain this, she said my reasoning didn’t make sense. But from my perspective, it feels like she’s setting me up to disappoint her. Whether I offer or not, she ends up upset with me. So, AITA for not driving her myself when she already had a ride?