My GF (32F) and I (31M) have been together for two years, living together for one. It’s been a hard year for both of us especially her, and she has fallen into a depression but tries to play it off and say she’s okay when all signs point to her feeling less and less so. She tells me intermittently she’s depressed and cries and had told me earlier this year that she didn’t want to be alive anymore. I’ve constantly told her to go to therapy and we could even both go to counseling both individually and couples, but she’s refused and i’m really worried about her. I don’t think at this very moment she’s a threat to herself, but she is definitely not feeling herself and she has stopped doing many things she loves and has become more of a shell of herself. She doesn’t help around the house anymore, our intimacy has taken a complete nosedive, and her mood is sporadic. She doesn’t want anyone to worry about her, but i’ve told her that depression tries to isolate you from your loved ones and that she wouldn’t be a burden, and even if she is trying to handle things on her own it doesn’t hurt to talk to someone or use therapy, that it’s not a sign you’re broken. Her father recently asked me how she’s been doing, and i didn’t say the full extent of how bad she’s been, but i did say that she is struggling and i’m worried about her and i think she could use alot of love right now and be around people. I didnt want to spill what she’s been saying to me to him but just wanted him to know she’s not doing the best in hopes that they talk and she says how she’s doing and the situation to him and he hears it from her. My fear is that she will think i’m an Asshole for this and i know it’s a touchy subject, but i genuinely don’t know what to do at this point. AITA?