For context, I dated a girl in 2022 for about a year. I ended things because I was depressed and didn’t want to open up to her about it. I have an avoidant personality, and instead of being vulnerable, I took the easy way out and broke up before showing her my weaker side. A couple months after the breakup, I started seeing two old friends with benefits again and also had casual hookups with a few others (in total, 6 women over that period). It was dumb, but at the time I was trying to distract myself from depression and not feel like a failure. Since then, I’ve worked on myself a lot. I got therapy, dealt with my depression, figured out the type of person I want to be in a relationship, and how to live with better values. In 2025, I reached out to my ex, and we reconnected. Things went really well. Early on, she asked about my past relationships, and I was clear that I’d had hookups/ONS during the time we were apart. I mentioned the 6 women, but I didn’t explicitly say that 2 of them were old friends with benefits, I felt that was covered under “hookups.” To me, it wasn’t about relationships, just mistakes I made. Fast forward 8 months into us being back together. Everything was going great, we were talking about our future, and she discovered that 2 of the hookups were actually old FWB. She now feels like I hid this from her, and even if I didn’t, she says she’s concerned about my values and how I act when things get difficult. She’s asked to take a break. From my perspective, I understand her concerns, but I also feel like I’m being judged for the actions of the “old me.” I’ve genuinely grown a lot over the last 3 years and the last 8 months of our relationship should prove that. So Reddit, AITA for not disclosing that detail about the FWBs and for how I handled things back then? Or is she overreacting by questioning the person I am now?