Hi, I have a friend,lets call her rachel, that I’ve known for very long time. Around few years ago I was invited girls trip that some of my other friends had planned. One of their friends dropped out and I invited Rachel to come along. Rachel and I had a lot of fun in the girls trip. I became closer to my friends and she got to know and became friends with them. When we come back from the trip, she proceeded to make plans with them. Sometimes, blowing off meeting me. It irritated me but I shrugged it off. I had a lot on plate at the time and honestly I wasn’t that pressed. Fast forward to this year, the year I got married. I had a bachelorette, bridal shower, and a wedding. So she got to meet all my friends. After the bachelorette she had started becoming distant with me, i wanted to ask but i also wanted to give her space. Because of these events she started becoming friends with all my friends. And the ones who she didn’t become friends with she kinda has beef with. Fast forward to after my wedding, this is when it felt like she completely cut me off. She was being cold, distant, and passive aggressive (honestly it wasn’t to passive). She would make plans with my friends and those friends would invite me to those plans. That’s how I continued seeing her. After a month of that, I asked her what was wrong and she said that she felt like I was unappreciative of her. She had put a lot of effort in my wedding and she didn’t feel I reciprocated enough. I profusely apologized and so I thought we made up. I try to make plans with her but she continued to dodge me. Saying she was busy. But she has to continue posting social media posts with my other friends. She made plans with my one friend, and that friend invited me. I declined because I was upset (but I didn’t let that friend know). Now she’s lightly talking to me again. In a cold and distant way but I see she is starting to make an effort. But I don’t know how to move forward. She’s literally become friends with all of my friends and so I can go to no one (other than my husband) regarding it because I don’t want to shit talk about her. Am I the asshole?