A relative and their family are visiting from interstate and staying at my place for two nights. I offered to have them stay at my place out of obligation and when I did, I said I’d try to get time off. I got approval to take the first day off (the day they get here), but didn’t ask to take the second day off (I’m still pretty new and just passed probation, plus I have another day off the week before so I didn’t feel comfortable pushing for more time off). I’m not super close with this relative and tbh, I get really anxious about entertaining people, especially on my own. My partner also has the first day off which helps, but I’ll be alone with them on the second day which is also why I didn’t ask for it off. I explained to my relative that I had work commitments and might not be able to get more time off, but that I would try and let them know. I think my tone came off weird and maybe made it sound like I was making excuses, which I wasn’t. Part of the reason why this is stressful is we didn’t speak for years and have only started reconnecting properly in the past few years, so things still feel awkward. I’ve been trying to make an effort and they have as well, but I always feel like I have to keep the conversation going when they don’t really reciprocate. I feel guilty because they took quite a bit of time off when I visited them (though they were in a position where they had heaps of leave they could take and I didn’t spend the whole trip with them, plus they had their family around so it’s not like they were alone with me). I do appreciate their effort to reconnect, but I also feel overwhelmed and uncomfortable in my own space, which makes me really dread the visit. AITA for only taking one day off and dreading hosting them?