I, 20(F), have a friend we'll call Maya (20F), who I've been friends with for years. She's currently dating a college friend of mine who I set up and we'll call him Tom. During a party a few months ago, a drinking game was brought out. The game is essentially truth or dare, but if you don't complete what the card asks you either drink or take a dab of hot sauce. During my turn, my dare was to let the host pick someone to prank call in my contacts. My roommate picked Maya, and we decided to tell her that Tom was going bonkers after taking a dab. So I call her, reciting what they had suggested, and Tom even spoke to her before handing the phone back. I explain it was a joke, that Tom is okay, and it's part of the game. She hangs up on me and we move on. The next day, Tom tells me that Maya was very upset and she was threatening to break up with him but he ended up calming her down. Tom says he had to throw me under the bus to save his relationship, which I said was fine, then asked me to apologize to her, which I did, because it was not a very funny prank. They're long distance so if anything did happen to Tom, she wouldn't be able to get to him. If someone had done that to me with my boyfriend, I would also be quite annoyed. After a week of trying to contact her, she tells me she doesn't want to talk to me and say something she might regret. I leave her be, thinking it'll blow over soon, but it doesn't. Maya ghosts me for 2 months after this. Finally, she sends me a huge text saying: "I've had to listen to you complain about your roommates and then you turn around and make fun of me with them. It came off two faced. I also don't feel like your apology was genuine and I don't feel like talking to you." I was shocked because I don't feel like that call was making fun of her at all. I ended up telling her that we'd talk in person when I come home from college during the holidays. Everyone I've told this story to says she's overreacting, but I want unbiased inputs. I know the prank call wasn't a great idea, but I don't think it warranted this kind of reaction. Am I being the asshole? I genuinely want to fix things with her. Last minute: my roommates and I are cool, we just have our typical roommate moments. EDIT: I’m the asshole, thank you guys for your criticism and feedback. I want to clarify that the prank was not meant to be mean or to scare her in any way. However, I see how it could’ve been taking as such. Seeing all your responses helped humble me so much!