Okay, so this is probably as simple as it gets. I (27 M) have been for the last two months taking any text Conversation with my family and now ex gf and plugging screenshots of the conversation through chat gpt to understand their side of things and to try to get better at saying what I am thinking correctly. Two weeks ago, my now ex gf accused me of "not caring" about trying to come up with my own thoughts when she found out I do this. I tried to explain, that I do my best to prompt Chat GPT to keep things neutrally based, and not focus on who is "right or wrong" and that most of what I use it for is to understand others point of views and to try to deescalate when things ever get heated. At first I thought this was fine, but now her and her mom are both calling me assholes, so I find myself wondering if I am or not.