My 28 yo daughter will have her second baby this week. She’s had terrible morning sickness all-day, the whole pregnancy (just like I did with her) I get so emotional and frustrated (kept to myself) bc her live in baby daddy (30yo) of 4 years sits and plays video games 80% of the time he is home/not at work. What he does do is quarter to half a$$ and makes a bigger mess. No respect or upkeep to my Mom’s house they live in rent free. Helping isn’t easy, it’s usually disgusting and way harder than it should be. Being there isn’t fun, I’ve sat in his pee left on the toilet seat more times than I care to admit. (1 male in a house of 3, soon to be 4 females) I help her and the kids, but I don’t believe I should clean up after him. (Yet, here I sit soaking my sore muscles in a tub of epsom salt because I spent over 4 hours yesterday cleaning/restoring nice light beige carpets in an average size living room, dining room and hallway, from the dirty brown/black, tacky to the touch condition they’ve become over the last 8 months they’ve lived there) When I left last night the trashcan was almost full. When I went back this evening the trashcan was overflowing and full of bugs/gnats, and he sat playing his video games. AITA for not taking it out?