I (25F) am a licensed massage therapist. My mom (52) has been dating “Rick” for about a year. He’s usually fine but sometimes makes gross jokes, like wanting my “soft hands” on him with a “nasty happy ending.” I ignore it to avoid drama. At a family BBQ, he cornered me and said he wanted a “soft touch massage and the nastiest happy ending.” I told him I wasn’t comfortable, and later he announced in front of everyone that I “refused him” and “kept asking for money.” I corrected him, saying I don’t work for free, but it was awkward. My mom later said I embarrassed him and should’ve just rubbed his shoulders “to keep the peace.” I told her it’s my profession, not a party trick, and he crossed a line. Now she’s mad, and some friends think I overreacted while others say I was right.